Online Course

“Introduction to Love School: Learning to End War”

Developing awareness for the oppressive systematic patterns of patriarchy, while exploring the foundations for a cultural shift in love and sexuality.


In this upcoming online course, Sabine Lichtenfels and Benjamin von Mendelssohn, co-founders of Tamera’s Global Love School, will be your guides in this learning journey. Today, more and more people are awakening to the need for transformative work, on the personal, social and political levels. Together, we’ll discover the relevance of dissolving jealousy, enlarging the vessels for love and releasing shame around authentic sexual expression.

At the core of the Tamera project stands the insight that there cannot be peace in the world as long as there is war in love. In this course, we’ll ask ourselves: What responsibility do I have for ending war? How do I find balance when experiencing the high voltage of love and sexuality? What tools can I use to free myself when I’m caught by jealousy, possessiveness, and fear? What social structures do we need to rebuild to allow for personal evolution?


Registration Deadline

February 22, 2024


Research area: Love and sexuality
Type of learning: Share knowledge
Location: Online
Language: English


As an experiment with radical trust towards post-capitalist economics, we offer this course on donation. To choose how much you can and want to offer, please fill this questionnaire.

Who is the course for?

  • Anyone unwilling to accept violence and oppression as a part of our culture
  • People who like to think systemically
  • Community Builders
  • Activists & peace workers


What you’ll learn

  • How patriarchy, as a system of oppression, is at the core of political change
  • How belief systems and  interpersonal patterns within us underpin systems and dynamics on the outer
  • How the development of healthy communities is a necessary foundation for healing love


Course content

Through interactive question and answer sessions, as well as spaces for deep sharing, we’ll experience the healing potential of community building. This course will help you develop more contextual awareness and systemic thinking that will help you to find answers and take more effective action. It also offers intimate contact surface with Tamera’s teachers, a unique opportunity to come into personal and beyond personal exchange.

Over six webinars, we’ll enquire:

  • What social architecture is needed to support truth in love and sexuality?
  • How can we move from collective trauma to forgiveness?
  • How can we shift from fear to trust & from jealousy to solidarity?
  • How can intimacy, commitment, and freedom be complimentary, not contradictory?
  • What does it mean to anchor sensual love in the universe?
  • What do queer & Indigenous perspectives bring to the work of healing love in community?

The webinars will be held interactively via Zoom on:

  • Friday February 23, 18:00-20:00 (UTC/WET)
  • Saturday February 24, 18:00-20:00 (UTC/WET)
  • Sunday February 25, 18:00-20:00 (UTC/WET)
  • Friday March 1, 18:00-20:00 (UTC+1/WEST)
  • Saturday March 2, 18:00-20:00 (UTC+1/WEST)
  • Sunday March 3, 18:00-20:00 (UTC+1/WEST)

The webinar sessions will be recorded and available to watch afterwards they have finished. Each session will include a lecture and interactive elements: Q&A, conversation, exercises and breakout rooms.


Main teachers and facilitators

Guest teachers

We will have one webinar dedicated especially to exploring the intersection of healing love while holding a marginalized identity. For this session our guest speakers will be:

After course support

  • Free access to resources for further study
  • Study platform will continue to be open indefinitely and allow you to exchange with fellow students



“It’s visible for me to see that Sabine and Benjamin are experienced and have knowledge. When they talked, they brought the essence of things in a few words”.
– Amir Furman

“Shifting from jealousy to solidarity … this webinar spoke to my soul & my heart”.
– Clarisse Daxhelet